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FREE WEBINAR – 4 Simple Steps to Overcoming Your Divorce

Divorce, Family Law, Separation, Divorce Lawyers, Court Orders, How To File Agreements, Child Support, Alimony…Have You Just About Had It?

Look, for men, this could be a really tough time, I understand! I know what it’s like. This can truly make or break a man.

That’s why you gotta come join the free webinar that’s taking place on Wednesday March 28th at 3pm EST, 6PM EST, and 9PM EST

Make sure you save the date and go register here ->  FREE WEBINAR

What you’re going to learn is simple. It’s 4 very basic tasks. It’s how I aligned my life and my business as well. But for now, let’s learn how to grow. Let’s learn how to earn more money, and let’s get our health in tip top shape. It’s how you navigate those tough murky waters.

Sometimes we need to shake up our daily routine, and completely change it up if you want different results. Let’s be frank…the reason why you’re here is because you’re looking to overcome, heal, grow and move on with your life. Well if you’re at this point you got there because of all the habits and patterns you’ve accustomed yourself to.

So it’s time to start switching it up, and training our minds to open up new possibilities and strategies that can ultimately change your entire life.

The HQ did that for me. I completely 180’d. I was at my lowest point. I almost killed myself. Literally.

That’s why I wrote the book, that’s why I’m doing this webinar, and that’s why I want to help you get the same amount of accomplishments in your own life.

I saw that pain and it lasted so long, I didn’t want anyone to suffer for as long as I did. I’ve always obsessed with simplifying things and creating more efficient pathways that a sixth grader would understand. So I can’t wait to share it with you all on the webinar.

Make sure to register here -> FREE WEBINAR

Sign up for updates and regular check-in emails from me! Because I like to hound you to be the better versions of yourselves. I find great pride in it. I love what I do. And it doesn’t even feel like work. So get in there!

We have a Private Facebook Group for Divorce Support Questions and Answers for Men. So come search us up, follow the podcast, and make sure to stay tuned to your email. I will send all the Webinar info there!

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Why You Should Be Joining A Divorce Support Group For Men

I always talk about why you should be constantly looking to grow, and these are one of those areas that we, men, do not have a lot of opportunities for. Finding emotional support groups for men in the divorce category are rarities. Men are only now realizing we have been bottling up our emotions for too long, but then again, there are still probably those that are reading this, and will take it to their graves. Some just will, and it’s no way to live.

I tried looking up local divorce groups in my area and I live in a pretty big city (Toronto) where we make up close to twenty percent of the population here in Canada, and there’s a whopping (you ready for it?)…one! And I’ve been to it. It’s great…if you’re looking to get legal advice. BUT not if you’re looking to grow and become a better man, a better father, and to reach new heights in your life.

And I say this out of no disrespect to the community they have built. It has its purpose. Legal advice is critical. In fact, a lot of the help that men ask for during their divorce is specifically that. I think it’s pretty frequent that people are always looking for a cheap divorce, or a do it yourself divorce, and trying to save money when times are tough and so they need that advice; it’s critical and very much needed.

I mean, a divorce attorney nowadays, it’s in their best interest to get what their client wants, and if there’s a blood sucking person at the other end filled with bitterness, revenge, and hate, you can bet your patootie that divorce lawyer will be trying to go after everything, which can complicate things.  That relationship, however, everyone seems to win. The lawyer gets paid more for elongating things, and the client leaves satisfied, usually in the favor of the mother, as is the case these days.

It’s not to say that we men, aren’t winning our battles in the courtroom. We are, it’s just, at a very sparse and steady rate.

So that’s why this process can make things really bad. It destroys the fabric of that family. It tears apart any of the wholeness that it took to create that. There are far too many cases (non-extreme) to go over and bring up where this occurs. Broken wishes, dreams, and homes everywhere. The amount of step-families have outdone normal families. It’s complete pandemonium. People are afraid to have kids, they’re afraid to get married and have big families. Things just aren’t what it used to be, except for maybe, well, the clothes…just different era. I’m just waiting to cringe when the bell bottoms come back.

Regardless, it’s basically flipping a coin nowadays, with the divorce rate hovering at about 50%.

That is why, having divorce support groups for men are critical. It’s absolutely necessary. Reading about the journey, arming yourself with knowledge, having key action steps, and then when you feel like you’re having a breakdown, the men step up for you. They offer you words of encouragement. Where else are you going to get that? It feels so much better because it’s coming from men who have walked that path already. We’ve been there. We know how it feels.

We all too often forget how easy it is to block ourselves off from emotions too, so it’s important to catch yourself and not let that happen, and let loose and be honest and vulnerable with yourself and with those around you.

It’s the only way you’re going to grow. It’s the only way you’re going to feel liberated so you can let go and start fresh.

I’m telling you, you need that, otherwise you are just throwing your life away. Your soul will carry those burdens around and it’ll imprison your happiness.

So make sure to join up. I run a divorce support group. I help men get to the next level in life. It is where we set the standards of happiness so we can bring others joy, and be of service to humanity. That is the elixir to a long life on this earth.

If you’re wanting to follow the journey make sure you are subscribed the podcast, and follow me on IG.

robinchoe.com/podcast
instagram.com/therobinchoe

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The Happiness Quadrant is Available for PRE-ORDER

It’s amazing how much you can get done, when you’re ready to give back in a huge way. It took me a long time to get to this point of no return, but the journey has been perfect, to say the least.

I’ve poured as much wisdom as I could in relation to everything I’ve been through during my marriage and divorce and the hardships I faced through that time of my life. The “HQ” has given me a way to live my life happily and not be worried by things that don’t matter anymore. If it doesn’t fit in my heart it has no place in my life.

Simple as that.

It’s given me direction, clarity, purpose, and my life is filled with intention now. I get up every single day knowing what I need to do. Happiness, just like love, is an everyday action. For me, it’s a constant question in my mind.

“How can I add more happiness into my life and the lives of others?”

See how I said my life first? Well that’s the key to all of this. Some people will call it selfish, I call it self-less. Taking care of your needs first is the ultimate key to locking the potential of the “HQ”.

You can run this theory in your life without love for yourself, but I guarantee the quality of each of those areas are going to be mediocre at best. And if you’re comfortable living life like that, I pray that when some life event occurs you are prepared to handle it, because when you live life at that rate, and you get hit with an unexpected loss, divorce, death, and you’re cruising through life…

Like i said, i pray…that you are truly ready.

The HQ isn’t just an outline, but it embodies a certain mindset. This mindset is very specific in the way it needs to be in order for its truest happiness potential within the “HQ”.

For example, if you’re constantly cycling through life and making the same mistakes over and over, you’re not living in the HQ. You are outside of it. Because your mindset isn’t right.

When you begin to start challenging your old belief systems, only then will you be able to free your mind to be able to absorb new data and learn new concepts. I challenge many old belief systems because I truly believe they are flawed and it’s led us to our divorces.

When I began living my life according to different concepts that were out of my “comfort zone”, that’s when the magic really happened. My self-development journey sky-rocketed and I was able to produce better, I was able to live my life more fuller, and I was able to concentrate on the things that needed working on.

My focus became more laser. It became more crystal.

Tasks became complete as opposed to unfinished. I am healthier. I am in the best shape of my entire life. I feel re-energized every morning. I am at complete peace with the Universe and I don’t think the world hates me anymore.

Rather I understand and appreciate all of its beauty. The pain and the pleasure. I have gratitude for it all.

Now without going too woo-woo on you guys, I know there’s a harmony that can exist within you too. Every life has balance. Because the Universe is balanced.

The sun, the moon. The earth, the water. Heaven, and hell. You get the idea.

So here’s the real reason why you should buy this book. Because you love yourself. And you owe it to yourself to become better. You owe it to your kids to be the dad you always envisioned growing up. I know you thought of it at one point.

Divorce should not be the end of you, rather the rebirth of the new you. You have every ability to create your own reality and write whatever story and ending you want to live.

Believe in that ability. Do not conform to the norm, and have a say at this thing we call life on this earth. It’s inevitable that we are going to die, and rather than waste our life away, might as well make every lasting minute count. So that our souls can be at peace and be at its’ bliss point. This book will take you there, I promise.

But everyone’s journey is different, and you have to be able to search for the deeper meaning in your situation. And take that and grow. It’s all about growth. That’s the wild card.

Bring others up. Always. It’s about humanity and leaving the world a better place.

But get yourself to a point where you can help first.

“BE SELFISH TO BE SELF-LESS” – Simon Sinek

Peace out.

LINK TO PRE-ORDER ~> www.robinchoe.com/book

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